True Beauty: When Humans Get it Right

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There is something so touchingly beautiful when human beings get it right. For those of us who have been exposed to extreme trolling, we know the effects it can have on your well-being. And, in some cases, that can cause a ripple effect as it also affects our loved ones. 


When Catherine, Princess of Wales, took a step back due to then undisclosed health reasons, the trolling was unthinkable and it showed the very worst of human behaviour. It got so bad that rumours were being circulated that she was kidnapped, that she was in a coma and even that she is no longer alive. 


It's almost unreal how fast the tide turned when she made her cancer diagnosis public. I am not entirely sure how much remorse was felt by those who found so much 'joy' in being so cruel. 

That's why there was so much beauty two years in a row in how she was welcomed to Wimbledon's Centre Court. And what made it even more special was that she appeared to be truly touched by the very simple outpouring of love. 


My point is not about the fact that a celebrity or, in this case, a royal princess is being cheered on. It's about how much beauty and satisfaction can be found in the simple things. We all have our highs and lows and there is so much power in cheering each other on through the good, the bad and the ugly. When humans get it right, it is so exquisitely powerful. 




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